825 South Broadway, Suite 50, Boulder, CO 80305



“Your task is not to seek for love,

but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself

that you have built

against it.”


Our Relationship Philosophy

Want to take the fast track to personal growth? Get into a relationship. Then choose to see each day with your partner as an opportunity to see and understand yourself more clearly, no matter how uncomfortable it gets.

Being in relationship can be quite a challenge, as it requires us to face ourself and look directly at our fears:

losing our freedom              

losing control                      

losing independence           

losing our self                     

getting rejected                  

not being enough                

being seen                           


Facing your fears means to recognize them as your own and to stop blaming them on your partner. By learning to understand your fear reactions and responses to your partner, you can learn to communicate in ways that bring connection, compassion, understanding and love, even in the toughest of situations.

It is only out of the

muck at the bottom

of the pond that the

beautiful lotus



We believe you are in the perfect relationship right now because you are growing. Even if you feel miserable, stuck and fed-up you are growing. We will support you in transforming the suffering in to a beautiful and rich relationship filled with love and compassion.

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feeling pain

feeling dependent

being vulnerable

not being seen

being loved