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“Your task is not to seek for love,
but merely to seek and find all the barriers within yourself
that you have built
against it.”
Rumi
Our Relationship Philosophy
Want to take the fast track to personal growth? Get into a relationship. Then choose to see each day with your partner as an opportunity to see and understand yourself more clearly, no matter how uncomfortable it gets.
Being in relationship can be quite a challenge, as it requires us to face ourself and look directly at our fears:
losing our freedom
losing control
losing independence
losing our self
getting rejected
not being enough
being seen
loving
Facing your fears means to recognize them as your own and to stop blaming them on your partner. By learning to understand your fear reactions and responses to your partner, you can learn to communicate in ways that bring connection, compassion, understanding and love, even in the toughest of situations.
It is only out of the
muck at the bottom
of the pond that the
beautiful lotus
flower
emerges
We believe you are in the perfect relationship right now because you are growing. Even if you feel miserable, stuck and fed-up you are growing. We will support you in transforming the suffering in to a beautiful and rich relationship filled with love and compassion.
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